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Exercise · AI and Automation Adoption: Leading Your Team Through Change

A Conversation with Someone Who Resists

Practice a five-step conversation with an employee who is resisting the adoption of AI.

Time45 minutes
ParticipantsGroups of three
MaterialsSituations on cards (6 pairs), observer checklists
From the trainingAI and Automation Adoption: Leading Your Team Through Change

Why this exercise

A conversation with someone who resists is neither persuasion nor a lecture. Five steps: listen, acknowledge the feeling, give the facts without promises you cannot keep, involve, and agree on a small first step with a deadline. An experienced skeptic often turns out to be the best tester of a new tool.

How to run it

  1. Show the five steps: listen → acknowledge ("I understand why this worries you") → facts: what is known, what is not known, what changes and what does not → involve ("Where could the assistant help you, and where not?") → a first step with a deadline.
  2. Groups of three: manager, employee, observer. The manager and the employee receive different halves of the same situation and do not show them to each other.
  3. A round: 2 minutes of preparation, 7 minutes of conversation, 6 minutes of feedback — from the manager, the employee and the observer using the checklist.
  4. Three rounds of 15 minutes, changing roles and taking a new situation.
  5. General debrief — 5 minutes.

Debrief questions

  • Which step was hardest? Usually it is acknowledging the feeling and not arguing.
  • What helped the "employee" move?
  • How did you answer the question about redundancies?
Tips for the facilitator
  • The goal of the conversation is not agreement but a first step. Sometimes a good outcome is "let's come back to this on Friday, once I know the answer".
  • If the manager promises something they cannot deliver ("nobody will be let go"), the observer stops them and asks: "Is that within your power?" The facts step is replayed.
  • Write down good phrases from the managers word for word — especially answers to "Will we be made redundant?" — and read out 2–3 at the end.